This year I considered taking the vow of chastity and devoting the rest of my life to helping the poor, the needy and the afflicted among us but then I read a book ” more on that later” and asked myself if that life would really be a life for me. I think that I wanted to take that vow in part because I was hurt. A guy who only a week ago poured his heart to me in telling me how much he loved me was now in the arms of another woman and was now pouring his heart out to her. So what if I had told him no millions of times, the point is that one wee later he loved somebody else. I did went on a male bashing rant on twitter to say the least and yes I do feel so much better.